Saturday, November 01, 2008, 12:07 PM
I have been doing some blog hopping lately because I just feel like procrastinating, which I shouldn't be doing, really.
But oh well.
Seems that there's a couple of bloggers who are having problems in their love life.
After reading a few, I think it kind of ties down to security issues. No, not the CISCO type. I'm referring to a sense of security in people. The thing that makes you feel safe from threats.
In a relationship, as long as both parties put in their all to commit to each other, they would feel sense of uneasiness from time to time. Humans have fear of the unknown, and they fear that they might lose what is precious to them. Of course, it helps if you have high self confidence in yourself, but really now, anything is possible isn't it?
Surely you wouldn't be with someone who is not in the least bit attractive, would you? I'm not talking purely on looks wise, but also on their personality. What attracted you to him/her might also attract other parties as well.
And that's where this whole security issues kicks in.
I'm guessing that at the end of the day, we just got to learn to trust each other more. I know trust is a thin piece of ice in the area of love, but if you learn to tread carefully, you might just go far, wouldn't you?
Give and take. Learn to love. And learn to give assurances. Nobody is perfect but you have the power to make your partner feel that they are.
